About me

I am an intersectional feminist and queer Shibari and intimacy expert with over 15 years of experience in teaching and performing around the world. As a certified Relational Coach, my passion lies in enriching intimate relationships and guiding the safe exploration of kinks and BDSM practices for individuals, couples, and groups, regardless of the social connotation of the relationship.

My style blends empathy, strength, care, and power to foster profound emotional and physical connections. Through my classes, I aim to lead participants on a journey of personal and mutual growth, utilizing the body and senses as tools for self-discovery.

Beyond teaching and coaching, my work encompasses creative direction, event production, and community building. I have worked as the artistic director of the "Rome Bondage Week" festival, directed Queer Knots Copenhagen (a queer rope festival and community), co-organized the Kinky and Queer Copenhagen initiative, and co-created the event series Beyond the Norm.

Currently based in Copenhagen, I cherish life with my beautiful wife, our wonderful son, and our dog. In my free time, you can find me playing with my family, volunteering at various LGBTQIA+ organizations, and engaging in political activism to create a safer world for everyone.

They say about me

  • Excellent online experience. Join RedLily even if you are shy, newbie or not sure if you are into. Give yourself the chance to join an empowering and non judgmental space.

  • Red Lily is a very welcoming person and extremely knowledgeable in all she teaches! Really looking forward to learn a lot from her.

  • I had a truly freeing experience. I was wary putting that much trust into someone new to me, but talking to Beatrice both over email and in person negotiating the scene really made me feel at ease. She made me feel safe and cared for throughout the whole process